Goal setting course opens doors for Syrian Kiwis

Mona Yahy and Habiba Orabi sit side by side in a busy Lower Hutt café talking about the bonds they’ve made and the things they’ve learnt since they left Syria to escape the horrors and impossibilities of war. They’re sharing coffee and cakes with their friend, and E Tū Whānau kaimahi Pohswan Narayanan.

Pohswan, Mona and Habiba

English is third language

Forty-five-year-old Mona is a warm, vivacious woman who tosses her head when she laughs – and she laughs a lot.  She talks quickly in English, her third language after Arabic and French.  She started learning English 28 months ago when she, her husband and three teenage children arrived in New Zealand.  Her youngest son is deaf so she’s learning sign language as well.

“I’m Mona, that means ‘hope’, and this is Habiba and her name means ‘darling’.”

Habiba who is younger, has heard the evocative introduction before and enthusiastically leans forward to join the conversation.  She’s keen to practice her English and talks about the benefits of attending one of the two Pathways to Successful Resettlement and Employment courses organised by Pohswan through the Upper Hutt Multicultural Council.

“The Pathways course got us to think about what we wanted and how we could get there.  We set goals.  First, we must learn English.  So, I go to classes three days a week,” says Habiba who is starting to see a career as an early childhood worker as a distinct possibility.

Resettlement support

E Tū Whānau funds the Upper Hutt Multicultural Council to support Syrian communities as they resettle in the Hutt Valley.  Pohswan manages that relationship.  She encourages refugees and migrants to tell her what they need to help them settle into their new lives then designs learning opportunities, like the Pathways course and an equally successful self-defence course.  She also organises group outings that are often hilarious and liberating to places like the go-kart raceway and the local bowling alley.

Mention of their go-karting adventure has both Habiba and Mona laughing and talking over one another as they describe the fun they had and the freedom they felt behind the wheel.  For Mona, it was a transformative experience.

“This was my time – no husband, no children – I felt like a teenager.  I love the go-karts and I want to do it again and again.”

High achieving whānau

While Mona appreciated the break from her domestic responsibilities, she remains devoted to her whānau and is extremely proud of her three children.  Her 17-year-old son Radwan and his 15-year-old sister Alaa are high achieving and award winning students at Naenae College.  After attending a course in public speaking, Radwan spoke at a recent Parliamentary function marking World Refugee Day and remains keen to share his story with more kiwi audiences.  Their 11-year-old brother Abodi is a student at Epuni Primary School.

Mona, who was a pharmacy assistant before she married, is now clear that she is going to perfect her English and her sign language then train to be teacher of deaf children.

“My son already knows much better sign language than me but I have to get better at English first before I can catch up with him.  My son loves his teacher.  She is so important to him and I want to be able to help him and other children like that.”

Big plans for the future

Mona is excited about her future.  She credits the Pathways course, and the support she received from Pohswan and the other gutsy, refugee women she’s befriended through the course with helping her identify her goal and the pathway to achieving it.

“If you see me before you can’t believe the difference.  In Syria, I was busy with my family.  That’s all.  But now my eyes are open to what I could achieve, that I can learn good English and go on to work with people with special needs.  I have a sense that I can actually do this.”